I recently read an article about open relationships, which mentioned that they can be healthy for some couples. Times have changed, and so have views on exclusivity in relationships. Factors like medical issues, hormonal changes, and mental health can all play a role in this shift. If, for some reason, you were unable to perform sexually, would you consider allowing your partner to have sex with someone else, under your supervision? Why or why not? Let’s talk about it…
Mary Svetlik Watkins: “They make toys for sexual pleasure. My married relationship isn’t just based on sex. There are other ways to be intimate. I’m comfortable in my marriage. We’ve seen each other through thick and thin. I don’t have to shave my legs and he thinks yoga pants and a hoodie are just as appealing as a cute dress, heels, and make up. He knows how to piss me off and calm me down and how I take my coffee. He can order for me and I for him at just about every place we eat. It took 30+ years to build this.”
Marty Pacheco: “Yes I’ve been in open relationships for years. I have no problems with it. It’s healthy because some partners just lost interest in sex. I’m blessed that at 65 I’m very active but find women in their 50s have no interest in sex anymore.”
Stephanie Bolster McCannon: “The physical act of sexual pleasure to orgasm can be experienced in multiple ways. It can be achieved with loving partners, willing to put in the time and creativity. Many women and men can experience the pleasure of orgasm without the stimulation of the sexual organs. I am not a fan of multiple partners, and I will not participate in a relationship of such. I am dedicated to loving and honoring one person that I choose to experience the sacredness of sexual pleasure. We can all get off alone. Nothing wrong with that. But having a dedicated trusting partner to explore the intricacies of the human spirit through the acts of sexual stimulation is of paramount importance to me as a human being. Having a sexual encounter is a diamond dozen having an intimate partner that knows the intricacies of your mind your heart and spirit and can bring you to ecstasy is a whole Nother ball game. The physical act of sex is not the end result, it is connection. I can achieve connection and intimacy and the height and states of ecstasy with a partner that truly wants to know me and pleasure me in multiple ways. It’s a willingness to use the imagination…I find it lazy to offer another person to fill those things.So no, I would not be a part of this open relationship . This is me and I know me and I’ve ended relationships because of it just providing my own perspective. You do you. Most folks get their heart and soul all twisted up over a specific outcome. Pun intended.”
Rodney Kidd: “Some say that the Bible tells people to “flee sexual immorality” (1 Corinthians 6:18), and that God designed sexual relations to only occur within the boundaries of a marriage between one man and one woman. They also say that biblical commandments label sex outside of marriage as sin (Exodus 20:14; 1 Corinthians 6:13–18), and that failing to follow these instructions can have serious consequences for mental and physical health.”
Ida Minty: “If I’m in a committed relationship I don’t think I could share my partner. My jealousy would get the better of me. However if we’re just dating, just let me know so that I can protect myself & make sure I use protection.”
Blue Rose Alvarez “As long as I get all the money, honey!”
Gene A. Gomez: “My girlfriend has a fiance. I don’t mind.”
Oscar Garza: “I have a female friend in her late 50s who is retired and has two homes, one in Denver and one here and wants to be polyamorous in both cities. It’s good for her, but not my thing”
Margie Cerda: “Open relationships- interesting topic. Factors like medical issues- health issues- sexual performance- any and all issues from A-Z are covered in sacred vows— for better or for worse— in sickness and in health. I am only speaking for myself- I cannot think of any reason that would allow me to give my partner permission to have sex with someone else because it would not sit right with my spirit. Interesting topic though— times are definitely changing”
Herb Rockman: “Just watch House of Cards for your answer.”
Carey Calvert: “No. Next, Oh, you asked for an explanation. If she wants to pursue that, she’s letting me know she’s not the one for me.”
Veronica Ronnie Vasquez: “If it works for them, then that is great, I don’t judge but it’s just not for me.”
Jeff Hull: “Yes. The whole dating thing seems nonexistent. It’s definitely difficult finding someone as it is. Open relationships aren’t really a new thing. I’m guessing with the internet it seems that way. It was definitely going on in the 60s,70, and 80s. Just no internet. For myself. I know one day sexual performance will be an issue. It’s a natural process. However there are still ways of providing pleasure.”
Aileen Garza: ”Shoot…I am barely open to having a relationship!”
Carr Rodney Rico: “No.”
Jeremiah Alvarado: “It’s not for everyone though. You have to have a clear conversation about this. When people’s feelings are involved. Especially between three people and two of them are in the relationship”
